Thursday, May 25, 2006
It has been a while since I wrote, but I have been busy partying. My mother and father turned 50 within four days, my brother graduated from Adrian College and I did a beer tasting for fellow alumni at Cranberries (my parent’s restaurant/bar).
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As I have commented before, when you earn noticeable success (you probably already have) people look to you more often. With the big birthdays of my mother and father, my family was all but telling me to plan the parties. It wasn’t too hard and I had no objections, but it was definitely time consuming. For about two weeks I was busy making picture collages, calling friends and family, sending invites, printing flyers, getting food and beverages, organizing the arrival of said parents…all while trying to keep it a secret.
I had help, but other responsibilities were neglected. Like my two jobs, four nights of softball and flag football and a beer tasting for U-M alumni. Luckily, the later was comprised of beers I have done before. I hate to admit, but they were put on the back burner for the better of my parents’ parties. I had to leave work early a few times, skipped sports and the beer tasting, well it went great, but you get my point…my comes family first.
My boss put it best when I asked her for the afternoon off, “Go ahead, family matters most. Plus you’ve earned it. I know you’ll get this stuff done.”
Until she said that, I was feeling guilty about neglecting work for an afternoon. But she’s right. As long as you are doing well and keeping up with responsibilities there should be no reason why you can’t put family over your occupation. Even if you are doing terrible at work and are about to be fired you should put what matters most first. Spend time with those who matter most, because when it comes down to it, most don’t matter.